It's Not A Big Deal

Nov 01, 2018

When I was in high school, I weighed maybe 90 pounds sopping wet, wore gigantic bifocal glasses, had shiny braces bigger than my face, and was called “chicken legs” every day at P.E.  This was how I had been my whole life, even as a young girl my knees were always scabbed over, my hair was never brushed, and when my mom would put me in something nice to wear, within a mere instant, it was covered in mud or bird poop or _________.   I probably heard her say daily that she was going to have to “Scotch Guard” my wedding dress someday, while my dad nicknamed me the Muck Monster.

The benefit of this was that I was never treated like a pretty object as a kid.  No one ever walked up to me and said, “Oh my gosh, you look so nice today.”  I was a do-er and an impressive athlete, and my sense of identity truly did form from my function and not from appearance.  I don’t even remember feeling badly about how I looked, except...

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Curiosity HEALED the Cat

Oct 03, 2018

There was a point in my life about 16 years ago when I was spending $900 a month - without permission - on my dad’s credit card, buying vitamins and the latest cure-alls from Whole Foods.  I spent every dollar of my own on yet another naturopath visit, acupuncture session, or detox guru.  I had massages with crystals and I did coffee enemas during 14 day liquid detoxes (before it was cool).  I saw energy workers and nutritionists. I ate an insanely isolating raw diet, bringing my own food to social events and using words like “safe” and “contaminated” whenever questioned.  I even refused to swim in swimming pools because of the chlorine.

To my credit, I was super sick and no traditional doctor I went to could help me find what was happening.  I couldn’t leave my house without charting where available bathrooms were along my route, as I rarely made it minutes without needing one desperately.  I had lost my...

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Stretch it, stretch it good

Sep 05, 2018

No one knows about stretching more than a former professional ballet dancer.  Oh, the things I used to do to stretch myself to unnatural degrees.  For instance, I used to stick my pre-teen feet underneath the edge of the piano and then try to straighten my legs.  Oh my lawd.  I did that.  I also used to watch TV upside down, with my legs on a wall in a V position, hanging open with hopes they would one day go touch the ground. 

Those are just two of the weird things I used to do to my body before it knew better than to bark back.  Ha.  But, the reason I bring them up is because for as much as we think we know about stretching, we actually know very little.  We basically all think:  Stretching equals flexibility.  The truth?  Stretching won’t do anything for flexibility unless you have strength first.  So, strength actually equals flexibility.

Let’s take my pre-teen foot stretching theory.  What I was...

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Aug 27, 2018

I am not MommaStrong.

I work for MommaStrong.

The statement above might look like a simple shift in perspective, but the truth is that it took a long long long time to get here.  In fact, I read recently that it takes on average of ten years to get to the one year that changes your life.  This couldn’t be more true for me.  And I have experienced that the start of that life-changing year usually begins with a painful sledgehammer to all the unmanageable bits of your seemingly secure life.

I learned so many profound things over the last year thanks to that sledgehammer, but I’m here today to quickly suggest that the most profound thing was (and will always be) this:  The quality of my life is directly connected to my willingness to connect, be transparent, receive, and give of myself to a safe and steady crew of other people.

For lots of reasons personal to me, this was not a simple task.  Letting down my guard, having discernment about...

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Aug 21, 2018

Dear MommaStrong,

As most lasting love stories go, I met you exactly when I needed you.  I wasn’t looking for you.  In fact, I had completely given up on fitness in general.  Because of my incredibly suffocating back pain and my invisible autoimmune diseases, it became clear to me that I ought to just give up.  I didn’t want to spend another penny on golden carrots dangled in front of me by well-meaning healers, doctors, and trainers.  So, right before I met you, I decided that that was that.  I was just going to quit.

What people around didn’t know is that along with quitting my job and quitting my healing, I wanted to quit life too.  And I spent much of my days planning how to do this in a way that no one would know was purposeful, so that my daughters wouldn’t have thatstory.  

This is what depression looks like.  This is how we suffer.

How could I tell anyone, though?  There was no hotline or resource...

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